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The Choice
The Choice is Edith Eger’s 2017 memoir about surviving Auschwitz at sixteen and then spending the rest of her life learning what to do with that. She became a clinical psychologist in her fifties and treated people whose suffering looked nothing like hers. The book moves between the camp, her patients, and her own decades of avoiding what had happened to her. It is not a book about forgiveness arriving easily.
Read this if you want an honest account of what recovery actually costs, written by someone who was both the patient and the therapist.
Read on to find out what Eger means by “the choice” — or grab your copy now.
The Choice Summary
In May 1944, Edith Elefánt was sixteen, training as a ballerina and gymnast in Kassa, when she and her family were deported to Auschwitz. Her parents were killed on arrival. She and her sister Magda survived the camp, a transfer to Mauthausen and a death march to Gunskirchen, where an American soldier found her in a pile of bodies because he saw her hand move. She weighed 32 kilos and had a broken back.
The Choice is the book she wrote about that, seventy years later — but only about a third of it is the camp. The rest is what came after: the marriage, the emigration, the decades of not talking about it, the panic attacks, the doctorate in clinical psychology she finished in 1978 at the age of fifty, and the patients she then treated. Soldiers with PTSD. Abused women. People whose suffering looked nothing like hers and whom she refused to rank against it.
The argument running through it is in the title. Eger does not claim you can choose what happens to you. She claims that what you do with it afterward is the one thing nobody can take, and that she spent most of her life failing to act on that before she managed it. The book is at its best when she is honest about the failing.
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The Choice Genre: Memoir.
Themes: Survival, Trauma, Freedom.
The Choice book review
‘She Refuses to Rank Suffering, Including Her Own’
— The line I keep coming back to: there is no hierarchy of pain. She means it clinically, and it changes how you read the rest.
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The Choice is on my list of favourite books. Here are some quick facts:
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Her age when deported
Year she finished her PhD
Books she wrote
Her age when she died
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Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
Why it's similar:
- both are written by camp survivors who became clinicians and treated other people's trauma
- both argue that the response to suffering is the one thing that stays yours
- both refuse to make survival a matter of character or willpower
Best for:
- readers who want testimony and psychology in the same book rather than separately
- readers who are wary of anything that sounds like a lesson drawn from atrocity
- readers coming to Holocaust literature for the first time and wanting a way in
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