Reading List · Lisanne Swart
Books by Edith Eger
Edith Eger was sixteen when she arrived at Auschwitz. She danced for Josef Mengele. She survived. She went on to become a clinical psychologist, a wife and mother, and eventually one of the most important voices writing about trauma, survival, and the possibility of genuine freedom. She has written two books. Both are essential.
By Lisanne Swart · 2 books · Memoir · Psychology · Updated May 2026
The Choice
Eger’s memoir of her time in Auschwitz and the decades that followed. She was a young ballet dancer from Kassa when the Nazis deported her family to the camps. Her parents were killed on arrival. She and her sister survived. But the book is not primarily a Holocaust memoir — it is an account of what it takes to live after the unliveable, and how long genuine healing can take. Eger did not begin to fully process what had happened to her until her fifties. The title refers to the insight at the heart of all her work: that even in the worst circumstances, we retain the freedom to choose how we respond.
One of the most important books I have read about the relationship between suffering and freedom. Eger writes about her experience without sentimentality and without false resolution. The clinical sections — she interweaves her work as a therapist with her own story — give the memoir an unusual depth. It is not just a story of survival. It is a guide to becoming free.
The Gift: 12 Lessons to Save Your Life
Eger’s second book moves from memoir into practice. Each of the twelve chapters addresses a psychological prison she has observed in herself and her patients — the prisons of victimhood, avoidance, self-neglect, rigidity, resentment, and others — and offers a way out. The book draws on her own story but is fundamentally about the reader. It is less narrative than The Choice and more directly therapeutic, which makes it a different kind of useful.
If The Choice shows you who Eger is, The Gift shows you what she actually does with people. Her approach as a therapist is warm, precise, and occasionally ruthless — she has very little patience for the stories we tell ourselves to avoid change. This is the book to read when you are ready to do something with what The Choice stirred up.
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“The biggest prison is in your own mind. And the most important key is already in your hands.” — Edith Eger
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