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Authors Like Glennon Doyle

Glennon Doyle was born in 1976 in Burke, Virginia, and spent her teens and early twenties with bulimia and drinking, until she got sober after learning she was pregnant. She taught school in Northern Virginia, and in 2009 started a blog called Momastery. Her second memoir, Love Warrior, about her marriage after her husband’s infidelity, was chosen for Oprah’s Book Club in September 2016; on a book tour that year she met the Olympic footballer Abby Wambach, whom she married in 2017. Untamed (2020) opens at a safari park, watching a cheetah called Tabitha who was raised beside a Labrador named Minnie and trained to chase a toy rabbit. Since 2021 she has hosted the podcast We Can Do Hard Things. The ten writers below share her ground: women telling the truth about bodies, addiction, faith and marriage, and deciding for themselves what their lives are for.

By Lisanne Swart · 10 authors · Memoir · Women’s self-help · Updated October 2026


Quick answer

If you love Glennon Doyle, start with Anne Lamott, who was writing funny, confessional books about sobriety, single motherhood and faith in the 1990s. Cheryl Strayed’s Wild was the first pick of the same Oprah’s Book Club 2.0 that later chose Love Warrior, and Mary Karr’s Lit covers drinking, recovery and conversion. The list ends with a writer who questions the self-improvement culture these books sit in.

10 authors like Glennon Doyle

01
Silence into language

Audre Lorde

American · The Cancer Journals (1980), Zami: A New Spelling of My Name (1982), Sister Outsider (1984)

Lorde was born in New York City in 1934 to parents from the Caribbean and died in St Croix in 1992. She described herself as “Black, lesbian, feminist, socialist, mother, warrior, poet”. The Cancer Journals records her breast cancer and mastectomy, and Sister Outsider collects essays including “The Transformation of Silence into Language and Action” and “The Master’s Tools Will Never Dismantle the Master’s House”.

The writer who came before the whole genre Doyle works in. Lorde argued that a woman’s silence will not protect her, and she wrote about her body, her illness and her love for women in the first person decades before it was marketable. Read her for the political argument underneath the confessional memoir.

— Lisanne

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02
Sobriety, faith and a newborn

Anne Lamott

American · Operating Instructions (1993), Bird by Bird (1994), Traveling Mercies (1999)

Lamott was born in San Francisco in 1954. Operating Instructions is the journal of her son’s first year, written as a sober single mother; Traveling Mercies describes how she came to Christianity through a small church in Marin County; Bird by Bird is one of the most widely read books on writing. Her most recent book is Somehow: Thoughts on Love (2024).

The clearest forerunner of Doyle’s voice: funny, profane and confessional about addiction, motherhood and an untidy faith. Both write short chapters that move from a domestic scene to a spiritual point. Lamott stays inside the church and is warier of handing out advice.

— Lisanne

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03
The wild woman before the cheetah

Clarissa Pinkola Estés

Mexican-American · Women Who Run with the Wolves (1992), The Faithful Gardener (1995)

Estés was born in Gary, Indiana, in 1945 and trained as a Jungian psychoanalyst. Women Who Run with the Wolves retells folk tales and myths, from Bluebeard to the Handless Maiden, as maps of a “wild woman” instinct that, she argues, women are taught to suppress; it spent years on the New York Times bestseller list. Some feminist scholars have criticised its idea of a universal feminine nature.

Untamed’s central image, a wild animal trained into obedience, is Estés’s argument in a single scene. Both books tell women that the self they were taught to hide is the one to trust. Estés works through stories and archetypes; Doyle works through her own life.

— Lisanne

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04
Drinking, recovery and conversion

Mary Karr

American · The Liars’ Club (1995), Cherry (2000), Lit (2009)

Karr was born in Groves, Texas, in 1955. The Liars’ Club, about her childhood in a Texas refinery town with a hard-drinking father and an unstable mother, was a New York Times bestseller for more than a year. Lit follows her alcoholism, her recovery and her unexpected conversion to Catholicism; The Art of Memoir (2015) is her guide to the form.

Lit and Love Warrior cover the same ground: drinking, a marriage under strain, motherhood and a faith found in recovery. Karr is a poet who writes harder, funnier sentences, and she distrusts tidy lessons, which makes her a good test of Doyle’s.

— Lisanne

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05
The first Oprah 2.0 pick

Cheryl Strayed

American · Torch (2006), Wild (2012), Tiny Beautiful Things (2012)

Strayed was born in Pennsylvania in 1968 and grew up in Minnesota. Wild tells how, after her mother died of lung cancer at 45 and her marriage ended, she walked 1,100 miles of the Pacific Crest Trail alone in 1995; in 2012 it became the first pick of Oprah’s Book Club 2.0. Tiny Beautiful Things collects the “Dear Sugar” advice columns she wrote anonymously for The Rumpus.

Strayed and Doyle were both chosen by the same revived Oprah’s Book Club, and both write about grief, a broken marriage and a woman deciding to remake her life. Tiny Beautiful Things is the closer match to Doyle’s advice voice; Wild to her memoirs.

— Lisanne

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06
Leaving the life you were told to want

Elizabeth Gilbert

American · Eat Pray Love (2006), Big Magic (2015), All the Way to the River (2025)

Gilbert was born in Waterbury, Connecticut, in 1969. Eat Pray Love, about the year she spent in Italy, India and Indonesia after her divorce, has sold more than 12 million copies. All the Way to the River (2025) is a memoir of her relationship with her best friend Rayya Elias, who died of cancer in 2018, and of her own addiction. In 2023 she halted publication of her novel The Snow Forest, set in Soviet Russia, after protests from Ukrainian readers.

Gilbert and Doyle both wrote bestsellers about leaving a marriage and choosing a different life, and both later wrote about falling in love with a woman. Gilbert is a storyteller and traveller; Doyle stays closer to home and draws a lesson from each scene.

— Lisanne

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07
The research behind the vulnerability

Brené Brown

American · The Gifts of Imperfection (2010), Daring Greatly (2012), Atlas of the Heart (2021)

Brown was born in San Antonio, Texas, in 1965 and is a research professor who studies shame, vulnerability and courage. Her 2010 TEDx talk “The Power of Vulnerability” is one of the most viewed TED talks, and six of her books have been number-one New York Times bestsellers. Her latest is Strong Ground (2025).

Brown supplies a research vocabulary of shame, vulnerability and belonging for experiences Doyle describes from the inside. Readers who come to Doyle for the self-help rather than the memoir will find Brown more systematic and less personal.

— Lisanne

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08
The body, examined

Melissa Febos

American · Whip Smart (2010), Girlhood (2021), The Dry Season (2025)

Febos was born in Falmouth, Massachusetts. Whip Smart is a memoir of her work as a professional dominatrix while she was a student at the New School; Girlhood, essays on how girls learn to see their own bodies through other people’s eyes, won the National Book Critics Circle Award for criticism. The Dry Season (2025) is a memoir of a year she spent celibate.

Febos covers the same ground as Untamed, women unlearning what they were taught about their bodies and their desire, with a writer’s scepticism and much more research. She suits readers who want Doyle’s subject in longer, more searching essays.

— Lisanne

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09
The British version, with friends

Dolly Alderton

British · Everything I Know About Love (2018), Ghosts (2020), Good Material (2023)

Alderton was born in London in 1988. Everything I Know About Love, a memoir of her twenties, dating, drinking and the female friendships that outlasted them, became a BBC series in 2022, with her own screenplay. She has written the “Dear Dolly” advice column for The Sunday Times since 2020.

Alderton shares Doyle’s confessional honesty about drinking, self-worth and love, but her centre of gravity is friendship rather than marriage or motherhood, and her tone is British and self-deprecating. A good bridge for younger readers.

— Lisanne

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10
The case against optimising

Jia Tolentino

Canadian-American · Trick Mirror (2019)

Tolentino was born in Toronto in 1988 to parents from the Philippines and grew up in Houston, Texas, where she attended an evangelical megachurch. She is a staff writer at The New Yorker. Trick Mirror collects nine essays on the internet, reality television, marriage and self-delusion, including “Always Be Optimizing”, about the ideal woman of wellness culture.

The writer who complicates Doyle. Tolentino examines the culture of self-improvement and personal empowerment that books like Untamed sell into, and asks who profits from it. Read her alongside Doyle for the argument rather than the comfort.

— Lisanne

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Where to start if you loved Glennon Doyle

If you loved Love Warrior, read Mary Karr.

Lit: drinking, a marriage and a faith found in recovery.

If you loved Untamed, read Clarissa Pinkola Estés.

Women Who Run with the Wolves: the wild-woman argument, told through folk tales.

If you loved Carry On, Warrior, read Anne Lamott.

Traveling Mercies: short, funny chapters on faith, sobriety and motherhood.

If you want to question the genre, read Jia Tolentino.

Trick Mirror, starting with “Always Be Optimizing”.

If you are new to Glennon Doyle, start with Untamed.

Then go back to Love Warrior for the story that led to it, and to Carry On, Warrior for her early essays.

Frequently asked questions about authors like Glennon Doyle

Who writes like Glennon Doyle?

Anne Lamott, Cheryl Strayed and Mary Karr are the closest: all three write memoirs about addiction, grief, marriage or faith in a direct, confessional voice. Brené Brown covers the same emotional ground as a researcher, and Clarissa Pinkola Estés’s Women Who Run with the Wolves makes the argument of Untamed through folk tales.

What should I read after Untamed?

Clarissa Pinkola Estés’s Women Who Run with the Wolves, Melissa Febos’s Girlhood and Elizabeth Gilbert’s All the Way to the River (2025). For a sceptical counterweight, read Jia Tolentino’s Trick Mirror.

Does Glennon Doyle have a new book?

Her most recent is We Can Do Hard Things: Answers to Life’s 20 Questions (May 2025), written with Abby Wambach and her sister Amanda Doyle, which gathers advice from 118 thinkers and writers. It shares its title with their podcast, which began in 2021.

Which Glennon Doyle book should I read first?

Most readers start with Untamed (2020), her best-known book. Love Warrior (2016) tells the story that comes before it, and Carry On, Warrior (2013) collects her early essays.

Is Glennon Doyle like Brené Brown?

They write about the same things, shame, vulnerability and courage, in different ways. Brown is a researcher who builds her books on interviews and data; Doyle writes memoir and draws her lessons from her own life.

Is Untamed a memoir or self-help?

Both. It is built from short scenes from Doyle’s life, including the end of her first marriage and her marriage to Abby Wambach, each turned into advice about trusting yourself, which is why readers often move on to memoirists such as Cheryl Strayed and to self-help writers such as Brené Brown.

Written by Lisanne Swart, who has curated reading lists and author guides at lisanneswart.com since 2021. Every comparison here is a judgement about method and subject, not an algorithmic match. See more on her personal bookshelf.

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