The Hotpot | December 2025 | By Lisanne
12.11
Most of us walk around with skills or expertise we forget we even have.
You see this pattern everywhere if you look closely.
Reese Witherspoon didn’t pull Hello Sunshine out of thin air. She had been acting since she was sixteen years old, and as a result, had built a solid network of directors, writers, and producers around her.
She also devoured books for years, which gave her a great blueprint of what books could hit. Her social media following was already substantial, which gave her the ability to reach people who could be interested in the same kind of stories.
All those ingredients sat there for years — then fused into a company valued at a billion.
When Bradley Cooper signed on as a film director, he had years of experience making films and acting on set.
Through those experiences, he subconsciously learned what makes actors shrink and what helps them open up. He accumulated tiny, human details like, when an actor hear their voice he knew from experience that it’s a vulnerable thing for an actor to hear, so as a director he would cut the playback from set to make actors more comfortable.
These seemingly useless skills later proved to be highly useful as a director, enabling him to create a safe, sacred space on set.
Another example is serial entrepreneur Emma Grede, who helped launch Skims and Good American, both billion dollar businesses. Emma spent decades working all kinds of jobs in the fashion industry, building her network, and pivoting into celebrity marketing. By the time she crossed paths with Khloe and Kim Kardashian, she had exactly the toolkit she needed to build these brands.
This is the thing we forget:
What serves us isn’t always obvious while it’s happening. Most of it looks ordinary. Random, even.
But the skills you pick up out of curiosity… the interests you follow because they brighten something in you… the jobs that feel like detours… they’re often the raw material for the thing you haven’t built yet.
So keep investing in what energizes you — even when it doesn’t look strategic.
Especially then.
Because one day, those “unrelated” pieces could click together. And you’ll realize they were never random at all.
Footnote:
Thanks for reading! The journal prompt of today:
What small, easily overlooked skills are actually moving you forward — and where did you pick them up?
Let me know in the comments.
Curious to see more reflections like this? Click through to see the rest of the series on self-care. I’d love to hear what resonates with you.
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