The Decoded | November 2025 | By Lisanne
4.11
The people who frustrate us the most aren’t enemies.
They are mirrors — they reveal the parts of ourselves we try to avoid.
The ones who inspire us? They aren’t just lucky.
They are showing us what we could become.
The person you fell madly in love with — who stopped calling back? A mirror too. Showing what you crave for. What you are fearful of.
The question isn’t why they act that way.
It’s what they reflect back.
Every conversation, every conflict, every compliment or silence.
Notice what is being mirrored. Learn from it.
Because only when you see it — all of it — can you start showing up more for yourself.
Thanks for reading! The journal prompt of today:
Who recently made you smile or roll your eyes? What small thing did they show you about yourself?
Let me know in the comments.
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